Random Musings of a Curious Mind


"It is an old maxim of mine that when you have excluded the impossible, whatever remains, however improbable, must be the truth."
-Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes, "The Beryl Coronet"

Monday, January 28, 2008

Two and a Half Men

Okay, I realize that I'm coming a little late to the party - but this show is soooo funny! Recently, because one can only watch the same episodes of the same shows - over and over and over - for so long until one's mind begins to rot, we decided to wander the dial and see what might be on elsewhere. That's when we accidentally found "Two and a Half Men."

Charlie and Holland and Conchata, of course, are always tremendously funny. Jon surprised me - didn't expect the comedic genius. Not really fond of the smart-mouth kid, but - hey - I live with one, so I might be slightly prejudiced.

If you've been living under a rock, like me, you've gotta check out this show. Not all of the episodes are "child-safe," but they are well-written, well-acted, and just a whole lot of fun.




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Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Cruises

Mark and I have been talking a lot lately about cruises, especially to Alaska. It's hard to resist the gorgeous scenery in those cruise ads. Although, it's hovering around 32 here overnight and I feel like I'm freezing. Maybe a Caribbean cruise would be a better idea.

There are so many options; you can cruise just about anywhere in the world at a really good price. Of course, the one place I'd love to visit, since my aunt and uncle went years ago, is Australia. After doing some research, I was surprised how reasonable a 16-night cruise really is and you wouldn't believe how many ports are included.

Guess I'll have to start another vacation fund.



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Monday, January 21, 2008

It Never Ceases to Amaze Me ...

Every so often - okay, every day - I read the news and shake my head. What exactly is going on in this world? Hmmmm? The commonality between news stories is a bit unnerving on any given day. For example:
  • Bridges and overpasses:
    • How many stories have been published recently about people throwing animals and children off bridges and overpasses?
  • Suicides:
    • How many stories have been published recently about people attempting / committing suicide?
Now I know that these things have been happening for generations; there's nothing new. But, do we need to read about it in the news, see it on television? When I was younger, out of respect for the families - and the sensibilities of the readers - those types of stories weren't published as front-page news, if they were published at all.

Not to mention, studies have been done, for years, investigating whether there is a direct correlation between media reports and dramatizations of successful suicides / violent actions and an increase in such behaviors. (The first recorded incident of copycat suicides, for example, dates back to 1774 in Germany and creates the basis for the Werther Effect.) Recently, guidelines were published for journalists in Hong Kong, which has seen an increase in copycat suicides that they believe are directly related to reporting practices:
  1. Coverage of recent suicides has caused serious concern among some circles in Hong Kong. Media studies in overseas countries have pointed out that coverage of such cases creates a so-called "copy-cat" effect, prompting more people to choose suicide as a way to solve their problems. However, academics are not unanimous on this point. Some studies argue that there has been no significant correlation between the reporting of individual cases and the actual number of suicides over a given period.

  2. The Hong Kong Journalists Association has compared the way overseas news organizations cover suicides. In the United States and Canada, journalists have agreed generally among themselves not to report individual cases. Instead, they focus on general suicide trends and the reasons for such trends. However, they have agreed to report suicides which involve a celebrity or which have a significant impact on the public. In many other countries, such as the United Kingdom and Australia, there are no specific rules on the reporting of individual cases, except that news organizations normally exercise a certain degree of self-restraint and try to avoid creating any "copy-cat" effect.

  3. The HKJA believes that a total ban on the coverage of individual suicides is not appropriate in Hong Kong. However, journalists should seek to strike a balance between the need to report news and the danger of creating a "copy-cat" effect.

  4. Editors and reporters should in particular be aware of the impact that stories about suicides might have on the vulnerable. They should be aware of the following:
    • Certain sensationalists ways of describing suicide in the news contribute to copy-cat cases;
    • Inadvertent romanticization of suicides may encourage others to identify with a victim; and
    • Reporting of detailed suicide methods can encourage vulnerable individuals to imitate these methods.

  5. In dealing with suicides, the HKJA recommends that the press should follow the principles stated below, unless overriding public interest is involved:
    • Journalists should adopt a low-key approach in handling suicide news. They should consider placing such stories on the inside pages of newspapers, and in less prominent positions in radio and television news bulletins, if such stories are used at all, given the significant influence the electronic media have on public attitudes.
    • They should avoid a detailed description of the suicide method.
    • The media should avoid giving a false impression, in particular to youngsters, that suicide is away(sic) to become famous. The use of a victim's full name and photograph is therefore discouraged.
    • The media should respect the privacy of family members and avoid imposing on the grief of those affected.
    • Since there are many complicated reasons for suicides, journalists should avoid simplicity and blaming any party for a particular case. Of greater importance, the media should devote more space to coverage of suicide trends and ways to remedy problems related to such trends.
    • When reporting individual cases, newspapers should consider publishing information about organizations and counseling services, which may prevent suicides. These include the Samaritans and other voluntary agencies.

  6. In covering suicide stories, journalists should be aware that the media can play a powerful role in educating the public about suicide prevention. Stories about suicide can inform readers and viewers about the likely causes of suicide, warning signs, trends in suicide rates, recent treatment advances, and cases where individuals have overcome despair without resorting to suicide.

"Guidelines on Coverage of Suicides" Suicide and the Media: Recommendations on Suicide Reporting for Media Professionals Pg. 33
The Hong Kong Jockey Club, Center for Suicide Research and Prevention, Faculty of Social Sciences, The University of Hong Kong
http://csrp.hku.hk/files/70_1894_345.pdf
Not long ago, a troubled young man took his own life. We all heard about it on the news. In the note which he left behind, he stated that at least he would now be famous. And that, in my mind, is exactly what is wrong with the way these stories, and stories like the Columbine shootings, are being handled. By publishing the names of these troubled kids and the details of their actions, other troubled youth may come to see the reported behaviors as an option for them, as well.

While the death of a celebrity may be newsworthy, I strongly believe that the death of an individual, outside the spotlight of the entertainment industry, should be virtually ignored. It should never be front-page news. And violent behavior, by individuals of any age, should never be glorified with prurient details of the crimes committed.

Life is not a video game - don't reward violence!




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Friday, January 11, 2008

Talkswitch

There are a lot of business phone system options. Some of the best, like Talkswitch offer the ability to customize. Having looked at a lot of systems lately, it's nice to be able to get what I want, not some mass-marketed setup that doesn't suit my needs.

For example, the Talkswitch 240vs is just the right size and the features are perfect. Between voicemail, multi-level auto attendants, innovative remote extensions and sophisticated call handling features, my little business doesn't have to look small. The standard connections and free PC configuration software, mean I can set it up or change it in a snap. Why pay someone to do something you can do yourself? Not to mention, it offers music on hold and I don't need to buy special phones.

If you're looking for a larger system, don't worry. Neobits offers over 15 different brands of phone systems that work for businesses with anywhere from 2 to 250 users. Already know which manufacturer you prefer? You can find it here, because Neobits has Avaya, Panasonic, NEC, Allworx, Epygi, Astra, D-Link, and many more. Many of the phone systems also support VoIP calls, so that businesses don't have to incur huge long distance charges - always a good thing, in my book.


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Wednesday, January 02, 2008

The Dumbing Down of America

I received a call tonight - actually several calls - from a very young woman looking for "Christopher Robin". It wasn't just that she didn't recognize the name - the real kicker was that the number she was trying to dial wasn't even in the same state as my number. After I explained that she wasn't even close on the number - just to add to the insanity - she called back three times!

So, when someone gives you a name that is the same as a character in a children's story, do you actually try to call? And how is it you didn't recognize the name? When you know that you've called the wrong number - a totally different area code - do you continue to use the autodial on your phone, or do you actually redial the number manually?

Sadly, this generation - who can't figure out what number to dial - is the one that will be taking over the country in a few short years. Be afraid - be very afraid!




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